power aspects of masculinity: the masculine power style

  • men are most comfortable in situations where the power structure and its laws are clear
  • men among men
    • Competition is a trait of a masculine personality.
      • A man competes in order to gain control.
        • the strongest (most dominant) person leads
        • the leader makes all the important decisions
    • Men need to establish the pecking order before they can begin working together.
    • Men are most comfortable in groups that have rules, because, without rules, the most aggressive person, rather than the best leader, will gain control of the group.
  • men among women
    • Men appreciate knowing whether a biological female wants to be treated like a man or like a woman.